I find it interesting when people are trying to be so precise about this. Because of things like the nature of our eyes (major thing) and things like the variability of our displays (minor thing), the use of color in AP is always going to be somewhat subjective. (Note the "things like" phrase, there's much more.) As has often been pointed out, a "true" portrayal of dim objects would always be grey.
Note that this discussion is littered with phrases like "too saturated". Isn't that in the eye of the beholder?
If the method is intended to get color you personally prefer, fine. Or if the goal is noise reduction. But if you're striving for something everyone will agree is "real", I think that's an impossible goal.
I personally throw science overboard here, use simple standard methods like ColorCalibration in PixInsight (which can be applied in a variety of ways) to get me in the ballpark, maybe SCNR (PixInsight, the Color tool in StarTools has something similar) to reduce green, and do final tweaking to my taste.
I find it interesting that there can't be a discussion on CN about color without someone needing to share ideological notions of why use of color in AP has to be subjective.
The current questioner said "I am still trying to get my post processing workflow (photoshop) sorted out. What I have so far is extremely unrepeatable for the color. "
"But if you're striving for something everyone will agree is "real", I think that's an impossible goal.
Bob, you're free to share your opinion,
but out of the blue projecting some notion of "real" as the final objective for us and then construction the notion of a "true" portrayal to fit your lack of concern for color precision other than what appeals to your taste doesn't really seem useful here.
A "true portrayal" is a red herring. there is no 1:1 scale, no 3-D, etc. in ANY 2D image. That's a given....Not a useful point IMO.
IMO someone who lacks care in color precision in recording what is up there in the heavens,
is close in matter to someone who lacks care in shape of objects,
and might as well apply Photoshop shape distortions to astronomical objects just like the magazines do to the curves of model's bodies to fit "one's taste."
Why care about one and not the other? Why not add a horn to Barnard 33's horseee and make it a unicorn?
There are tools that exists and processes that allow more consistency with handling color than I think you understand.
The motion picture industry is moving towards a landmark standardization with ACES (Academy Color Encoding System),
and video/motion picture has utilizes methods and tools (waveforms, vectorscopes,etc.) color calibration tools, color charts, color spaces, gamuts, display gammas for a long while now.
Technology is moving towards High Dynamic Range displays necessarily as more and more phone displays require use in direct sunlight.
Many experts see it as more revolutionary that what higher resolution brought. As displays develop a wider range of absolute luminance,
the ability to display a larger volume of colorfulness (chroma) will come about.
Soon enough having a "calibrated displays" might be the norm. Adding a display facing sensor and compensating for ambient light to auto-calibrate isn't such a challenge.
Images not handled well now with color,
and those that never develop a skill for handling color consistently,
might just be left by the wayside just a few years down the road.
Like it or not, what we do now with digital photography processing is done on what are the offspring of TV sets,
where video set the paradigm of how color is handled....
And the trend towards accuracy, precision, repeat-ability and consistency in workflows with color and tonal range is moving light speed over there in that realm.
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The technology (sensors, filters to help register color, methods to encode the color/tone data, tools to process, methods to transform the data to displays, displays)
is still in quite a level of infancy.
But I don't imagine astrophotography will move closer towards "abstract art" circles as we move ahead....
People can spread their color-nihilistic ideologies on CN all they want,
but the future is coming.....
.....And a discipline based on precision and accuracy in measurements and passion for describing what is up there correctly is right next door to AP.
Some call is astronomy.