It would be nice if an "all purpose" do it all telescope existed. But they do not. Unless you have a budget for Astronomy like a billionaire, than selecting the right telescope for "you" is all about compromise and making the right choices.
Do you sacrifice rich-field, wide-field viewing for long focal length high magnification lunar and planetary views. Grab and go means as small, light-weight and portable as possible...but it would be nice to still have some decent aperture.
A short focal length Achro with a 2" focuser will allow you wide-field deep-sky viewing without the need for a bulky German equatorial mount or a pricey computerized altaz mounting.
Also, will you be viewing from light-polluted skies, or are you fortunate enough to have reasonably dark skies. Many of us have, or had to, drive a considerable distance to a dark sky observing site.
Are you married and have kids that would like to come along to do some viewing?
Some telescope shops have a 2-week return policy, as long as there is no damage. And yes, I do know such a place and am a friend of the owner. This gives you chance to try the scope out. If it doesn't fit your viewing "lifestyle", you can return it for something more suitable for you.
Good-luck and I hope it all works out for you.