Thanks George, that option would work well at a fairly dark site. Mine is pretty bad, last night I couldn't hardly spot even Deneb. Since I was using a camera that works with APT though (asi1600mc), I found a decent way of doing it, although it's not the simplest way.
I have a stick pc and a travel router, which I can log into from my tablet. Once I got APT up and running, as well as HNSKY (using their IP server), I took an image with the camera and platesolved it, then pressed Show to show it framed in HNSKY. That told me where the camera was actually pointing. Knowing your fov, move the camera, then platesolve again, until the object is centered. It's not as bad as it sounds, especially at the lower focal lengths like 200mm and 135mm (which is what I used last night). Longer focal lengths may be a bit trickier, since the movements are incrementally smaller.
I couldn't to that with the M5 though, since it's not supported. But mirrored Canons should work well. At a dark site, where you can actually triangulate using stars (or even see the objects) the finder should work well.
Chris, which tripod did you get? Does it have a way of tying a bungee cord from the center? If it does, and you're on fairly soft ground, tie a bungee to the center on one end, and one of those pet corkscrew things at the other end, and screw it into the ground. That should put enough pressure on the legs to stop them from wiggling.
Timm, the polar scope is indeed a very good design, apart from quality control issues in assembly. And it should be very accurate once properly aligned.