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M31/M33 were "meh" (Sorry MT4) and honestly so were the Starfish (M38/NGC1912) and the Pinwheel (M36/NGC1960). All were less than spectacular...
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Jordan, it seems like you have optimized your BT eyepiece selection for double stars maybe at the expense of DSO viewing?
You have standardized on Takahashi TLP eyepieces, is that correct? Which have 50* AFOVs? So, quite narrow both in true FOV and also in viewing feel.
Here are my three lowest magnification eyepieces for use with BTs.
Left to right, Explore Scientific 24mm 68* series, Pentax 20mm XW, and a newly arrived Orion 24mm UFF, which I tired for the first time last night, unfortunately just as clouds were sweeping in so I only had a few moments of viewing with them, but it was tantalizing -- pinpoint sharp right to the edge of the field and even through light clouds, the views of M 52 and the Double Cluster were remarkable.
These three eyepieces have AFOVs of 68, 70, and 65 degrees. With the 100XL the FOVs are 23x/2.91 degrees, 28x/2.50 degrees, and 23x/2.79 degrees respectively, granted not nearly so wide as a 6.5 degree binocular and M 31 is a bit of a squeeze but the views are plenty spacious for M 33, M 36, M 37, and M 38 and they feel like binocular views.
I haven't done that much observing with the TPL 18mm yet, but my initial impression was surprise at how narrow the AFOVs are and what a different experience it is compared with wider AFOV eyepieces like the above. Given such narrow AFOVs, it's not surprising to me that DSOs seem meh from a binocular perspective.