Well, I would not put my hand on the bracer for the DZ, but can vouchsafe that between the DF and DL there is a very noticeable difference about their behavior on a mount, and the latter is for sure more troublesome; however 5" seems a bit too much according to my experience with the DL
Anyway, I use both with a Report tripod and for me the answer has been a tracking mount, namely the Astrotrac Travel Set.
This item, which I could not praise enough, is no longer available but sometimes can be found in the "classified" (last time I saw one was sold at ca 1000€); the closest thing I could think of is the Fornax Lighttrack2, and in lieu of the declination module you could use your current DM4 if can add somewhat a counterweight shaft, or any other alt/az head with this feature.

Speaking of the Astrotrac Travel Set, its hollow travel pier could be also worth your attention: it is not overly heavy (6kg), stiffer than the Report and very handy to travel with because it is hollow so can be used to store and carry part of the equipment.
The pier's legs are removed and placed inside the steel cylinder for travel and therefore the object as a whole does not need much care when moved or handled.
Its major downside is the fact that can be set up only on rather even surfaces; also it is not very tall so have to observe sit down on a stool or chair