Key point. It's almost certainly a combination of things. The DSLR is unlikely to be the most important.
Processing is a big one (but is complicated). That background is awfully black. That can remove dim detail. A major reason why people make the background too black is that there are no flats. So they raise the black point to "fix" it, and lose stuff. Flats (and bias, necessary to make flats work) are basically required for decent images.
If your calibration frames make your image worse, you're either not taking them properly, or not processing well. Siril is good for many people, but my usual recommendation to beginners is Astro Pixel Processor, and that could be better for you. It calibrates and stacks really well.
A cooled astro camera will work better. But there are other, more fundamental things you need to deal with. Any modded DSLR should be able to capture the spikes some with 7 hours of exposure. The astro camera is a good idea, but won't fix all the issues that caused you to have NO spikes. That means other things are wrong.
The pretty pictures do not come easy. <smile>
Edited by bobzeq25, 23 March 2023 - 10:50 AM.