When I use my 100/f5 or 80ED at home viewing in the city with a 25mm or 30mm UFF eyepiece I often have to stop down the telescope to 65-70mm to reduce the exit pupil (and darken the sky).
I could use a shorter focal length EP, but I love the wide views.
I don't seem to have the problem with my 15x70 or 20x80 binos.
Even though the exit pupils are large the sky doesn't seem as bright.
My conclusion is that with all the porro prisms/reflections/ vignetting in the Binoculars, the exit pupil of binoculars is not comparable with a astro refractor.
Q1 ...
There is more light throughput in a refractor? Is this accurate?
On the whole, refractors do transmit more light than reflectors. Like all things, it is not as simple as a yes / no.
Assume 98.5% transmission per surface, a good diagonal and negligible absorption. A refractor will transmit about (0.985)5 = 93% of the incident light. Typically, a reflector has 90% reflectivity, then it transmits 81% of the light but some of the other 19% gets scattered which degrades the contrast. If it has high reflectivity coatings (95%-ish), it will transmit about 90% of the light and less will be scattered.
Then you need to consider the aperture and the central obstruction from a secondary. As a rule of thumb, a refractor will about equal a reflector that has an aperture of 150%. So a 80 mm refractor is about equal to a 120 mm reflector. More or less. The image quality of the refractor will be usually be better. The refractor will be far more expensive.
Q2 ...
I was wondering if binoviewers would effectively act as an aperture stop, while giving me the benefit of two eyes.
Hmm .. I think the effect you are seeing is related to the diameter of the exit pupil.
With your 15x70 bino's, the EP is 70 mm /15 = 4.7 mm while with your 20x80 bino's it is 4 mm.
Your 100 f/5 has an exit pupil of 5 mm with your 25 mm eyepiece and 6 mm with your 30 mm.
The apparent brightness of the sky goes with the square of the exit pupil, so that a 100 f/5 + 30 mm will make the sky appear 36/16 = 2,25x brighter than the 20x80 binos. That's 0.9 magnitudes brighter or nearly 2/3 of the visible stars being squashed.
Stopping your 100 f/5 down to 65 mm returns its exit pupil to about 4 mm so that you should see about the same number of stars as your 20x80 bino's. My explanation of it being related to exit pupil seems consistent.
So what to do ... I'll do the sums for your 100 f/5.
Let's assume my understanding of the discussion in EdZ's article (linked to by Eddgie) is basically right. Binoviewers send half the light each way and using two eyes makes things appear brighter. The effective aperture of your scope will be about 100 x 6.7 /8 = 84 mm.
1. If you use large prism binoviewers and you can reach focus without a Barlow or corrector, you can get away with 30 or 32 mm Plossl eyepieces. Your magnification will be the same but the true field will be a lot smaller - say 3 degrees instead of 4. The effective exit pupil will then be 5.2 mm. The sky will be about 0.6 magnitudes brighter.
2. If you use large prism binoviewers and you can reach focus without a Barlow or corrector, you can get away with 24 mm UFF eyepieces. Your magnification will be 21x instead of 16x but the true field will be the same as a 32 mm Plossl - say 3 degrees. The effective exit pupil will then be 4 mm so the sky will have similar brightness at slightly higher magnification.
3. If you switched to (say) an AT 20mm 100 deg eyepiece instead of a binoviewer, the magnification would be 25x and you would have a 4mm exit pupil. So that's good. You'd also have a true field of about 4 degrees. That's good too. The primary issue is that you might get a lot of coma at the edge of your field. You might want to check the Eyepieces forum for this.
Caveat - a large prism binoviewer will cost you at least $800 (used Denk II + Baader T2 diagonal + adapter + nosepiece) and you need at least 180 mm of available inward focus travel. You will also need two eyepieces ... so going for wide fields with binoviewers easily puts you on the wrong side of a kilodollar. It would be prudent to test your system at a club meeting.
Also, the so-called 'linear binoviewers' vignette badly with longer focal length eyepieces. They're easier to use but they won't get you wide fields.