Suggestion: don't sell the 13mm Ethos.
You don't need the 10mm Ethos because of the 11mm Apollo
11 to 13 to 21 seems OK for what are likely the targets you are looking for.
Unless you are constantly feeling the need for an eyepiece in between the 13mm and 21mm, I think your set of eyepieces is fine as is.
As has been mentioned, the 3.7mm Ethos SX would result in a very high magnification, so here is the question:
Do you use the 4.7mm a lot?
If the answer is yes, then you would likely use the 3.7mm.
If the answer is no, then you can pass on the 3.7mm
For a 20",
<200x low power
200x-400x medium power
400-600x high power
600-1000x ultra high power.
You have to have very very good seeing to use 600x+, but 500x would be usable at times.
Assuming a 20" f/4, that is a focal length of 2337mm with the Paracorr, and the 4.7mm yields about 500x.