I'm pleading not guilty on this one and pointing to magazines. I go back and forth between Sky&Telescope and Astronomy. I've been getting one or the other for 30 years. I have seen several stories on the subject and this is the first time I have ever heard the merger might not occur. Do you think these magazines have known this all along but a non-merger doesn't make for a story that sells magazines? Why then would they pick now to reveal it?
First, these are model runs based on existing data and theories and assumptions to fill in for unknowns. And there are unknowns that are not included because they are unknown. The models are constantly evolving. None are gospel - there are too many unknowns. Sometimes a following model is better but sometimes it's not. It's an evolving process.
Science magazines are not a vault of the truth. They select articles based in large part on what they think will draw attention to get readership and sell magazines. If a lot of (not all) groups have published results indicating the two galaxies will merge then publishing another article on another group getting the same results is a bit ho hum. It's not likely to excite the readership as much as an article on a group getting different results. None of these models are 'truth'. They are an evolving process. Beings in the distant future will see what actually happens and it may not be a good match with any of the models we have today.
You can't present any of these models as what will happen. Rather talk about the possibilities these models present. Talk about how we observe galaxies in collision, mergers and near misses. Talk about what may happen with the Andromeda and Milky Way galaxies. Nobody knows what will happen. We can only talk about what we think the possibilities are that may happen. And different groups have different ideas. It's okay to say we don't know but here are some ways we think it could go. I think that stirs folks to think and use their imaginations.