You say try a 6-8 dob, and this is what is making me question my equipment as i have a 5 inch reflector ( an inch smaller ), then an 80mm apo ( also an inch smaller lol) as everyone seems to say 80 isnt enough but 100mm is, as with a newt, 5 inch newt isnt enough but 6 to 8 inch is...I feel like im an inch short on all my scopes! And as a new person, im wondering how much of a difference this really makes.
Initially when I got my scopes, I knew very little what size is good for what purpose. The more i read, the more it seems i literally purchased scopes which are not capable from what most people say.
I would love to really see the difference from my 80/560 apo to a 100mm apo and a 5 inch newt to a 6 inch.
OK. Let's reset here. This is the problem with threads like this. So many opinions about "the best" and all we serve to do is confuse people and make them hate their scopes. About your scopes. You have an 80mm Apochromatic Refractor. When I first started out in astronomy oh so many years ago, you couldn't even buy one of these for love nor money. It would have been a dream scope to just about anyone. And, if you could have bought one it would have cost an easy £10K in todays money. That 8" Newtonian so many folks recommend would have cost the equivalent of $2500.00. So most of us didn't have these.
You need to get out and use the scopes you have. We would have killed for them "back in the day". And we saw stuff with much more primitive equipment. And we loved the hobby and now, nearly 50 years later, we pontificate about machines that were unimaginable upgrades from scopes we owned, loved and used.
I wish you were here in my front yard. I could set up all of the ones you mentioned for you to see. The thing is though, if you do not love the hobby in the first place what would be the point?
Here is your homework assignment. Set up both of your telescopes and look at the moon. See which one you like the best. See what each does as you increase magnification. Look at the moon for a long time. Own the differences. My guess is that you will see that there is not that much difference at all. But did the moon excite you? At this point in your journey you should be eager to use the scopes you have. Take my word for it. If you are not romanced by seeing M42 in your 80mm APO or 5" reflector, seeing it in a 100mm APO will not trip your trigger. There is, frankly, very little real difference.
If you come to love this hobby you will always be hankering for bigger-badder scopes. YOU DID NOT MAKE A MISTAKE ABOUT YOUR SCOPES. You made two really good choices.
There is no aperture size where 1" will make a world of difference. I have a 4" Apo refractor. I also have a 5.1" Apo refractor. Can I see the difference? Yes. But I am bringing to the comparison 50+ years of experience. Would the average person walking up to either scope see the difference. Only maybe. But that difference would not mean much to them. A few more stars in a glob. Absent the comparison side-by-side. Not much difference at all.
Here is a story I have told before here. At a well attended star party I set up my 6" achromatic refractor on a really nice mount, next to a guy with an astrophysics 6" Refractor. His AP 155 EDFS is a dream machine. No longer available it commands huge prices from people who just have to have one. (I have subsequently owned and used AP scopes and they are wonderful.) So there I am with my sub $1K refractor about 20 feet from the superstar. I cheated. I put an astrophysics diagonal in my scope and the legendary 31 Nagler eyepiece. And I pointed that scope at the double cluster in Perseus. Person after person who looked through my scope was gobsmacked. I heard "oh my God" so many times it finally got the attention of the AP owner who strolled over and looked. "Wow" he said and asked me what the scope was. I told him it was a few hundred dollar Chinese achromat. He simply walked away shaking his head. Later he invited me to look at the same thing using his scope and the same eyepiece. There was a difference but not very much. On that target. We both agreed that "worth it" is a very moveable feast. And that scopes are tools best used for that for which they are best suited.
All that to say that I do not recommend that you buy anything at this point. The two most important things any astronomer can bring to any scope is patience and wonder. Get a book to understand what you are seeing. After awhile, take your scopes to a darker place and see what the big deal about that is. Then. When you can articulate exactly what it is that you want to upgrade then get it. There is plenty of time to buy stuff but not before you know whether it is worth it.
Again. You have great scopes that are just crying out to be used.