All these stars are variable. They are the reddest when expanding (going dimmer in magnitude) and reddest when nearing the bottom of the variability range.
They are less red when shrinking (going brighter in magnitude), and the least red and most orange when nearing the top of the variability range.
As you say B-V colours are variable for red LPV variable stars so more importantly it has to be ensured via statement or reference, and not just by hope, that the B-V measure being quoted are at least near contemporaneous measures.
The General Catalogue of Variable Stars can be an assistance for red objects as it carries the range of B-V sometimes and the spectral class range often.
A simpler clue can be to use the oldstyle R and N spectral classes. In temperature terms they are parallel to G to K to M spectral types but for carbon rich objects. Also N stars seem to be the most red. This was updated to the C spectral class where R kind of goes up to C5 or thereabouts and C5 onwards is kind of equivalent to old N.
It is also two dimensional (three if you include the luminosity class) thanks to the second number which is related to the Swan Band strength, or rather the strength of the carbon absorption bands in general. Although some of these can reach the red end of optical they tend to be strongest in the blue and especially green areas of the spectrum. An emission line version can be thought of with respect to the images of comets that look green. So if you have a variable object that is near minimum light which has a spectrum of C7,6 you have cool (the cooler a star usually the redder) with fairly large parts of the blue and especially green continuum supressed (less blue and green = relatively more red). Possibly there is emission from red Swan bands too, I don't know.
The variability doesn't matter that much for some of them as the SR or semiregular variables have a low range of magnitude change and the Lb or red irregular long period variables have very small range in brightness. Although quite well known Mira variable carbon stars are known there are more SR ones and many more Lb ones.
R Leporis, Hinds Crimson Star, often called the reddest, is a Mira of spectrum C7,6e newstyle, N6e oldstyle (e stands for emission lines). C7 and N6 are temperature of the photosphere related. The 6 in C7,6 shows strong Swan Bands. Magnitude range is around 6 in the visual so it will have differing shades of red when fainter or brighter.
V Aquilae is often described as blood red and ranges from C5,4e to C6,4e, formerly also N6. Swan Band isn't very strong but not week. This is a semiregular variable, an SRb class - which means two or more periods (SRa are more Mira like but lower amplitude variation), with a visual magnitude range of barely 2 so does not change in colour all that much.
Y CVn, La Superba, also a multiperiodic semiregular variable or type SRb, is C5,4 or N3, and has smaller B-V listed, but is claimed as a quite red star in books. It is also a J star, which simply means the carbon-13 isotope is relatively more prominent compared to the far more common carbon-12 isotope in the star's atmosphere. It also has cool circumstellar matter surrounding it which can redden stars.
In other words make sure the B-V values are taken on the same night or at least week and use the modern spectral types to give a better idea. Even more recently the spectral subtypes CR and CN followed by numbers are used with some allusion to the old R and N types, this allows use of things like CJ for the J stars and CH for the hydrogen deficient stars (which can be more carbon star like because of a hydrogen shortage rather than a carbon excess and often aren't very red, just reddish).
As with much of astronomy's pigeonholing the rules apply except for when they don't. It's like learning a foreign language, they teach you the regular verb groups and they sound good with solid rules but it turns out the spoken language uses the more archaic pre-reform verbs known as the irregular verbs with various rules you have to memorise, even if they have small groupings themselves each group's rules differ from any other group.