I apologize for my absence in replying to all your posts over the past few days - had a lot of stuff to take care of. Anyway, I deeply appreciate all your thoughts and suggestions. You have all been very generous with your time and thoughts. However, as a telescope idiot, I find that all these comments have raised as many questions in my mind as they have answered.
I have, however, arrived at a few conclusions:
1. I am going to be a 75 year old star gazer, not a star hunter. But, having said that, I am not particularly inclined to fully automated scopes - feels a bit like going to the shooting range and then paying someone else to clean your gun. I don't mind doing a bit of work, but I don't want to be frustrated to the point of giving up either. Therefore, I am inclined toward StarSense technology, though I am not sure I want to pay for ity if there are good alternatives.
2. I will use my scope for planetary viewing. Of course, the more I can see, the better. But, I am not looking for Hubble-type views of deep space.
3. Portability and ease of set-up is a big factor. I will always have to drive to a viewing spot. At age 75, and counting, my strength and flexibility is not what is used to be and is not getting any better as the days pass. And, I will primarily be doing my viewing alone.
4. I am not going to be doing any photography.
I spent some time a couple of days ago looking into refractors. I understand the FOV is narrower, but I also understand that images are clearer and crisper - with a good refractor. But, the weight of a 3.5 or 4 inch refractor concerns me some, and set-up (especially by myself) seems like it might be awkward. Also, it appears that by the time you purchase good eyepieces, a mount , and good tripod, you are going to spend maybe $2,000 to $2,500. The cost does not scare me if it is money well spent, but I try not to be stupid with money either. If I were to buy a refractor, it would be something along the lines of a SkyWatcher Evostar 100 mm. But, any comments you have regarding a refractor versus a dob or sct would be appreciated. Remember, this is probably the only telescope I will ever buy.
I have also decided, if a dob is my decision, to go with a 6" scope. As I age, it will fit me better, and I will be able to handle it longer. One of the posters here talked about his 6" tabletop dob with a collapsible tube. I understand how that makes storage and transport a lot easer. Any comments you may have about collapsible tube dobs would also be appreciated.
So, I guess I now have the following questions:
1. Good refractor versus dob or sct.
2. Tabletop dob versus traditional dob setup for transporting and using in the field.
3. Is the StarSense technology really worth paying for?
Thanks again for your patience and willingness to share with me.