I started this thread by asking you to "talk me off the ledge (or nudge me over)". I have been talked off. No wood threads. Thank you for the great input. Back to the drawing board for me.
Also, I suggest NOT having the 3 triangles (or 6, since it's a 12" mirror).
Download and use PLOP GUI to figure out the shape and size of the triangles.
The reason not to have the triangles all move but not the lower contact points on the edge of the mirror is that the pressure on the bottom of the mirror will move away from the front-to-rear center of gravity of the mirror
as you adjust collimation, and this will induce astigmatism in the star images. (Use the Cruxis Mirror Edge online calculator to find the front-rear COG).
So, you have some alternatives:
1) fix (basically don't turn) one of the 3 collimation bolts and only turn the other two to collimate so the mirror does not walk up and down the tube and change the contact points on the bottom edge of the mirror.
2) have the tilting mirror contact point triangles all attached to a plate to which the mirror edge supports are also attached and have the collimation bolts only move this plate.
3) use a Glatter wire sling where the hanging points for the wire sling move up and down with the mirror. This keeps the wire in the COG and keeps the mass of mirror in front of the wire equal to the mass behind it.