I've been using a green laser pointer for years now and I use it almost exclusively. I DO have a 50mm straight-through finder but only use it when #1, It's not dark enough to see the laser. #2 The batteries go dead in the laser and I don't have spares. #3 It gets too cold for the laser to work. #4 I need fine detail that I can't see with the nekkit eye so I need the 50mm closeup view, AFTER I point at it with the laser.
Unfortunately, because I live in an orange/red zone, I can't hardly see the laser so it doesn't do much good, though once in a while, if the local high school has their stadium lights out, I might be able to use it a little. However, I almost never observe from the back yard.
Also, it's doubtful too many neighbors would notice the light beam because of the bright sky but if they were looking for it, they probably could see it a few houses away. They would HAVE to be looking for it and it would have to be darker than usual.
In my main dark sky location, it is quite visible. I make sure never to leave it on, always look where I'm pointing it beforehand, of course, since it's in the landing pattern of McCarran airport, and never EVER let kids or strangers point it.
I also avoid major astronomy events because they tend to ban them and will never attend something like the Grand Canyon North Rim event, which is the closest major star party except our own Las Vegas sponsored events, which are at Death Valley and Cathedral Gorge, where lasers are no problem.
People can be quite touchy about them.
One more thing. I'm always conscious of imagers and make sure if someone is trying that, to never point it at the part of sky they are aiming at.
If you use common sense, they are a great tool and save a lot of neck aches. I find mine essential.
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